Full Question
I want to have a second baby but my husband doesnt want to. What should I do?

Answer
It is important that both you and your husband are ready and want to have a second child. Because this can be such a hot button issue, you may want to hear him out first and not respond, really take in and reflect back what he has said and then have him to do the same. This technique is called mirroring and it is a great way to ensure that you understand your husbands position and he understands yours. Also think about time lines is there a rush to have a second child? Are there financial or other issues that need to be cleared up first? Perhaps your husband is thinking about these things and has clammed up because of that. It will take several conversations to understand each others positions, so you will both need to be patient.

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